I was heavily co-dependant. The thought of being alone terrified and paralyzed me.
Why did I keep putting up with abuse?
I was heavily codependent. Scared to death of being abandoned. Being alone made my heart race just thinking about it.
I had been operating from lack of self worth which caused me to put others needs before my own. I was so focused on what they enjoy or ensuring I didn't do what 'upsets' them, I was changing into someone else.
I had a heavy fear of abandonment. I was doing things so desperately to accommodate their needs, I forgot about my own. I lost myself, my voice, and my passion.
I continued to live in hope. Hope they'd realize how amazing I am. Hope that one day they will be the potential I see in them
WHAT A LIE.
Why was I WAITING for them to see how amazing I was!?!
While I was waiting for others to see me and love me, I was abandoning myself - my wants, needs, and desires to please others. I was afraid to be abandoned but in reality, I was abandoning myself all along.
How did I stop abandoning myself?
I have stepped into the very best version of myself. And I have created an amazing life and a successful business supporting women all over the world who are ready to step into their big bold blissful life.
Free your voice. Be Brave. Be Bold. Be You. Break the Cycle.
Love yourself instead of the idea of other people loving you
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